Zishu hasn't learned everything either - between all the time he'd been ordered to bed rest to heal from one thing or another. But he's learned a fair bit.

"One of the nicer thoughts has to do with this place's interest in intimacy." Which is rather extreme, in his opinion. "On the milder side, perhaps just a kiss would break it, in which case I'd be happy to test that out with you," he allows himself a grin at his friend. "It might require more than that, which I would suggest you seek your beloveds for that."

Pulling himself back to the more serious thoughts. "On the less kind, perhaps you would have to drink, as I did. Or let it run its course, as Lao Wen had to." Which had been...difficult on his poor husband.