He forgot that clause. Unless one is speaking to a Lan, they were either lying, a eunich or dead. Though, sometimes he wondered if the monk clan were eunichs by default. "If you want to, go ahead." Then he stops, holding up a hand. "After I've left, thank you." The smirk at the end of that statement was hopefully enough to let Sizhui know he was teasing again.

"The best way to learn about a body is to start with yourself. And you'll be able to tell him better what you like and don't like and not be so overwhelmed in the moment." Yes, that was speaking from experience. He knew what he liked but... still outrageously overwhelmed by the entire experience.