September catch-all

[diabolique]

⌛ Who: Wei Wuxian, Wen Kexing, Ouyang, Henry Silver, Atheva Lavellan, AND YOU!
⌛ What: September catch-all
⌛ When: Throughout September
⌛ Where: various
⌛ Warnings: will be added to threads as needed

Wei Wuxian
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Wen Kexing
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General Ouyang
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Henry Silver
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Atheva Lavellan

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[fullgrownturnip]

Alright. That was still a lot to process but at least not jumping around anymore was helping him to have time to gather his thoughts. Somehow staring at the table and not his father helped too.

"So you can...touch each other..."

[diabolique]

"That's right," he affirmed with a nod. "That's a good place to start. Kissing and touching will help you find out what you like best."

[fullgrownturnip]

Sizhui nodded to show that he understood. It did seem like a good starting point if he said it like that. He did quite like kissing Jingyi. A lot. Sometimes he was sure he could still feel his lips on his own.

"...what happens...after?"

[diabolique]

"That's up to you and your partner. I think, it's most fun to take your time and explore each other, learn what each other likes, what makes them giggle, and what turns them on even more. There's a lot you can do just touching. But if you want to go beyond that, if you want to have sex, that takes a little extra work between two men."

[fullgrownturnip]

Alright, this was suddenly not seeming so frightening. It was even seeming realistic and less worried about his fathers having done this already. Repeatedly apparently since they were married now. "What is the extra work?"

[diabolique]

"Unlike with a woman, the passage you'd enter with a man is dry. You'll need oil to ease the way. Which... It's easy to find here. If you think you may need it, I can get some for you. Or tell you where to get it."

It's not like he and Wangji don't have a stash of lube. They could spare a little to save Sizhui or Jingyi the embarrassment of have to go buy it themselves.

[fullgrownturnip]

Oh. He supposed that made sense actually. It was logical and rational, something he responded to quite well. Sizhui's eyes darted side to side like he was reading a scroll. Or searching for the right question.

"...Wei-qianbei, the hole is rather...small. How do you...?" Make it bigger.

[diabolique]

Wuxian lifted a hand and wiggled his fingers.

"You lubricate your fingers and use them to, uh, loosen the entrance." Or they could use sex toys, but that might be a little much to discuss at the moment.

[fullgrownturnip]

Those dark eyes lifted, saw the wiggling fingers, and immediately went back to the table. Bad idea. Don't look at Wei Wuxian's visuals.

"Loosen..." He pondered for a second then realized something. "You put your...fingers in there?"

[diabolique]

"Mmhmm."

He paused, poking at his noodles but no longer bothering to eat them.

"You start with one. It will feel a little strange at first, especially the first few times. But as you, or your partner, begin to relax it will feel better. Once that happens, you can add another."

[fullgrownturnip]

Logically, he tried to understand how this was working. Why it would work that way. But soon it clicked. Oh right. It was a ring of muscle. Like with other practices the muscle was capable of stretching and relaxing.

"Doing this will allow...it...to fit?

[diabolique]

"That's right. It will always be snug, but it will fit."

He could feel his cheeks getting red.

"You'll learn how much preparation you and your partner need. It varies from person to person based on things like their ability to relax their body and their partner's size."

[fullgrownturnip]

He didn't even know which of them was going to be the one...filling the other. He guessed that when he and Jingyi were ready for that they would have to figure that out. It was going to be such an embarrassing conversation...

And then he thought of something very suddenly that made him forget to be flustered. A realization. "Wei-qianbei...you are the one who gets penetrated."

[diabolique]

Thank goodness he wasn't eating or he might have choked. His soul was barely able to stay in his body!

"...Yes...?"

[fullgrownturnip]

It made sense! How his father would know that with the right preparation how good it would feel. And that it would, in fact, fight. Not to mention that it would fit snuggly.

He considered all this a moment longer. Using rational thought was very much helping him to process this better and without as much embarrassment. Such was his nature. "...It is like Hanguang-jun is a sword and you are a sheathe. I am not sure what I am."

[diabolique]

"You don't have to be just one. Some people prefer one role over the other, but some like both equally." He's been inside Lan Zhan once. No need to paint that mental picture for Sizhui, though. "You don't have to rush to learn what you like, either. If you feel like something isn't right, you can always stop."

[fullgrownturnip]

"We have only kissed so far." No. That was a lie. A complete lie. "...Well, I have been on his...lap. When we were in our inner robes and wet from the Cold Springs. But I was very drunk, Wei-qianbei."

[diabolique]

"Lan Zhan was very drunk our first time," he shared with a little huff. "We were out for a picnic and I think the wine was too strong for him." A little frown bowed his lips. "I was terrible to him. He confessed his feelings and I wasn't even sure I could feel the same way. Don't be like me."

[fullgrownturnip]

He shook his head at that. And he looked dead serious as he looked at his father. "I don't think I could ever be like that, Wei-qianbei. I am not one to be in the practice of denying my clear feelings for another."

[diabolique]

"Good. You and Jingyi both deserve that. Even if there comes a time when you are uncertain about your feelings, talk about them. If I've learned anything, it's that communication is the foundation for a strong relationship. Any kind of relationship."

[fullgrownturnip]

"It is good that you were able to learn that. It was not always your strong point." Even when he first met him it wasn't. He remembered well the incident of the ghost cure. And there being no warning to how spicy and bad it would really be.

Feeling better now, Sizhui finally managed a smile. "I apologize for the awkwardness of these questions. But I'm grateful you were willing to answer them."

[diabolique]

"Lan Zhan can help answer them too, if more come up." He's not going to mention that Lan Wangji studied how sex between men works whereas Wei Wuxian had no clue at all when he agreed to it.

"Also," he added, lifting a finger and trying to look sage. "If you and Jingyi need someplace to, ah, fool around, I can make sure me and Lan Zhan are out of the house for a while to give you some privacy."

[fullgrownturnip]

Sizhui's cheeks burned again. That was a very kind offer. To be able to get them oil and to give them space as well. It was all so much.

"I don't know when we'll...do that. We've only just admitted our feelings to each other. It seems so much so soon." Would Jingyi want to try right away? He truly had no idea. Though he supposed they'd have to talk about it at some point.

[diabolique]

He couldn't help smiling. "Take your time, Sizhui. There's no rush to do anything you don't feel ready to do."

[fullgrownturnip]

"I do really love him. I think I'll have to discuss it with him to find out what makes him comfortable." That seemed the right and fair thing to do. That way they could both be on the same page. He would just have to find the right moment.