jikan_rpg | September catch-all

They could...do all of that? But how? What did any of that actually mean? Sizhui stared at the man in utter confusion as he tried to process literally anything that he had just said to him. Literally anything.

Nope. Nothing was getting through. He was a virgin with no sex education. And now suddenly trying to understand how any of this applied to Jingyi.

And failing.

Ah, right... Gusu Lan was a bit of a prudish clan. Wei Wuxian sighed softly and wracked his brain for a way to explain.

"You learned anatomy right? So, um, you can do all that with... um... your thing."

That was so very vague. Sizhui tried to understand what part of his body was his...thing. The thing he could supposedly do all of this stuff with. He swallowed and looked down at the table.

"...what is the...thing?"

"Your penis." He sighed. "When you're attracted to someone, when you want to do sexually intimate things with them, your penis will get hard."

It would do what? Sizhui looked up in shock at the explanation. Swallowing, he tried to process this and somehow remain calm. "I am not sure how it...hardening...would apply to the rest. Of what you said."

Wei Wuxian isn't actually surprised by that. "Well, when you're with someone you care about and are attracted to, those are the various things you can do when it gets hard. So, you can just goof around and touch each other or you can actually have one partner penetrate the other... But there's some work that goes into that."

He wanted to run from this conversation so badly. Yet here he was still talking about. Still trying to learn. Whatever this was. It was all very confusing and apparently something his parents had done before marriage! "...penetrate?"

Did he really want to know? That sounded so...violent? Were his fathers alright?

"That's when you put it inside your partner... or them inside you. It doesn't always have to be one way. Whatever feels right at the time."

He could tell he wasn't doing a very good job of this by the expression on Sizhui's face. "It sounds scary, but it's not. It feels really good. And it's special to share with someone you love."

"...put it...where?"

It felt good? How could it feel good? A hard thing suddenly penetrating your body somewhere? Sizhui was horrified and confused.

Lan Zhan would've been so much better at this!

"In, um.... your bottom?"

The urge to hide his own with his hands was strong. However he used all his Lan training to avoid doing such a thing. Especially in public. But logically this did not make any sense. How would it fit there? The only hole there was small and...

"...I..." He didn't even know what he wanted to ask. He just could not understand how this worked!

"It fits," he assured with all the confidence of someone who's had tab A inserted into slot B.

He let out another sigh and scrubbed his face with his hands.

"This isn't making any sense, is it? Let me try again."

Sizhui was staring at the table like it was somehow going to save him. How? He had no idea. But surely it would show him mercy somehow.

Shaking his head, he confirmed that his father was very much not making any sense to him at all.

"When you desire someone, your body has a reaction to them... or the thought of them. That's when you get hard." Following this so far? He's trying to go slow and cover all the bases, but also leave room for Sizhui to ask questions. "If you were to touch yourself -- indecent, I know! -- but if you were, you'd find that it feels really nice."

Alright. Now that they were going slower it was easier for him. Barely but it was. Deep breath in, he nodded. A physical reaction would happen sometimes when around them or thinking about them. And apparently if you touched yourself during that moment it would feel good.

His ears twitched like they wanted to swing in front of his eyes to hide them. "You...can touch yourself. In that moment?"

Guess who hadn't done that in his life yet.

He was raised by the Lan, it's not all that surprising.

"Mmhmm! And if you're with someone you love, you can let them touch you, too."

Alright. That was still a lot to process but at least not jumping around anymore was helping him to have time to gather his thoughts. Somehow staring at the table and not his father helped too.

"So you can...touch each other..."

"That's right," he affirmed with a nod. "That's a good place to start. Kissing and touching will help you find out what you like best."

Sizhui nodded to show that he understood. It did seem like a good starting point if he said it like that. He did quite like kissing Jingyi. A lot. Sometimes he was sure he could still feel his lips on his own.

"...what happens...after?"

"That's up to you and your partner. I think, it's most fun to take your time and explore each other, learn what each other likes, what makes them giggle, and what turns them on even more. There's a lot you can do just touching. But if you want to go beyond that, if you want to have sex, that takes a little extra work between two men."

Alright, this was suddenly not seeming so frightening. It was even seeming realistic and less worried about his fathers having done this already. Repeatedly apparently since they were married now. "What is the extra work?"

"Unlike with a woman, the passage you'd enter with a man is dry. You'll need oil to ease the way. Which... It's easy to find here. If you think you may need it, I can get some for you. Or tell you where to get it."

It's not like he and Wangji don't have a stash of lube. They could spare a little to save Sizhui or Jingyi the embarrassment of have to go buy it themselves.

Oh. He supposed that made sense actually. It was logical and rational, something he responded to quite well. Sizhui's eyes darted side to side like he was reading a scroll. Or searching for the right question.

"...Wei-qianbei, the hole is rather...small. How do you...?" Make it bigger.

Wuxian lifted a hand and wiggled his fingers.

"You lubricate your fingers and use them to, uh, loosen the entrance." Or they could use sex toys, but that might be a little much to discuss at the moment.

Those dark eyes lifted, saw the wiggling fingers, and immediately went back to the table. Bad idea. Don't look at Wei Wuxian's visuals.

"Loosen..." He pondered for a second then realized something. "You put your...fingers in there?"

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